Anonymous asked: I saw your last post to anon about love, and I thought I'd ask a question. I recently broke up with my boyfriend because I felt smothered and like he was all up in my business. Well I realized I made a huge mistake and I want him back...but he won't talk to me...what can I do/say to at least get him to talk to me about it?
be there for him. don’t smother him, or push too hard. tell him you love him and you’ve made the biggest mistake, that you will not bother him but you will always be here for him. Check in with him every other day, just to say hello thinking of you. do not stray. stay truthful to him even without being with him. The most important thing is that you know you are strong on your own and if he doesn’t want to be back with you, that’s okay. it was not meant to be if it doesn’t happen. those who are meant to be in each other’s lives always stay. step back if he asks you too, and always say if you’ll be texting him in the future to just remind him you’re there. you’ve learned a valuable thing, don’t take something for granted while you have it. hopefully you can see relationships a little clearer in the future. I wish you the best, and if you’re meant to be, stick by him and it will happen.